There are many people who indulge in pre-marital sex. Most of them do it knowing well that it is a sin Islam. There might be only a few who are unaware about the Islamic laws regarding pre-marital sex. By the way, whoever has committed this sin, whether knowingly or unknowingly, should ask Allah (swt) for forgiveness because Allah (swt) is very merciful and pardons our sins. There are a plethora of cases in the present times where the girls are being taken for a ride by the boys, who promise them with marriage. The boys take advantage of the gullibility of the girls and have sexual relations with them. Once their lust fizzles out they leave the girls in a lurch.
I keep receiving a lot of mails in which the girls have got a raw deal at the hands of their so-called lovers, who proposed them and then left them after using them physically.
Such fraud guys keep the girls hooked for a long time, all the while promising them marriage and making lame excuses for the delay.
Many of the mails that I receive are from girls who are pinning their hopes on those fraud guys and crave for them to return. They become emotional about those crooks and do not want to marry elsewhere. They lose their virginity to those cheat lovers so they feel apprehensive of getting married to someone else, lest their beans get spilled. Allah (swt) says about such people in the Quran:
26Women impure are for men impure, and men impure for women impure and women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity: these are not affected by what people say: for them there is forgiveness, and a provision honourable.
surah noor chaptor no 24 verse no 26
The only way to repent of this sin is to ask Allah (swt) for forgiveness. Only then will the person get released from this life-long tension.
Allah (swt) says in the Quran:
16If two men among you are guilty of lewdness, punish them both. If they repent and amend, Leave them alone; for Allah is Oft-returning, Most Merciful.
Surah nisa verse no 16
So all of you, who are in love! Get married because this is an Islamic way. If you do not follow this way then satan will make you a sinner and your life will become complicated. A few moments of pleasure will ruin the happiness and peace of your lifetime. This is not a good bargain. So do not listen to satan who is your worst enemy and prefer to get married rather than having girlfriends.